#519

You should never ask a girl out like "Would you like to maybe go to this restaurant with me on Friday night?" She will think that if she goes with you on Friday she's going to give you the most amazing Friday night but if she says no you're gonna sit at home alone and watch Netflix like a loser, that might not be true but that's what she thinks but when you invite a girl into your already amazing life and go usually like: "I'm gonna go do this great thing on Friday you should come" now you're giving her far more fear on missing out on something big and the energy is completely different and showcase real power. But let's say that she actually has a genuine scheduling conflict, your response can be: "So bad you're going to miss out, but hey no worries I'll definitely invite you back out to something in the future" That's how you put the pressure and the ball in her field and ask a girl out like a high value man.