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People in incredibly difficult circumstances are still loved deeply by their partners. That's a proof that unconditional love is neither a reward for perfection or flawlessness nor does it hinge on status, credentials, or achievement. It’s about being human together and is something that grows in the soil of authenticity, compatibility, vulnerability, and mutual respect and not something you earn by ticking boxes or meeting arbitrary standards. Being the person who witnesses the rawest parts of human life on a daily basis, gives you a rare lens into what real love looks like, messy, enduring, and often irrational in the best way. It’s really important to remember, rejection is not a verdict or a measure on your worth but rather a mismatch. When someone turns you down or projects unrealistic criteria onto you, that typically says far more about their preferences, expectations, limitations, or insecurities than it does about your worth as a person. You’re already enough. You’re not looking for someone who demands perfection, you’re looking for someone who accepts you as a whole, flaws, brilliance, and all. Let me ask you, would you want to be loved only because you met some checklist of qualities, or because someone truly sees you and chooses you? That’s the kind of love most people are ultimately looking for and that’s also the only kind of love you deserve.