#788

Honestly mate, the fact that this has happened a lot of times in a row is worth paying attention to, not because you're a bad person, but because there might be a pattern that you're not seeing yet. It might be worth talking to a therapist, not because something is wrong with you, but just to get an outside perspective on your patterns, because sometimes we have blind spots that friends and strangers can't fully unpack. Being upfront is actually great, so it's probably less about what you're saying and more about what attracts you or how things evolve over time.